Woman loses sleep over boy’s love of guns
Dear Abby: I recently met a man I love dearly, but I don’t agree with the toys he buys for his 10-year-old son, “Dale.” The boy plays violent video games and is obsessed with guns to the point that we can’t leave the house without him bringing a toy gun along. The video games he plays (unsupervised) are violent and gory and rated M (17 and older).
Dale is not mature for his age. In fact, he often whines when he doesn’t get his way. He’s allowed on the Internet without supervision, and I have walked in and caught him surfing naughty pictures. When I told his dad, he laughed and said, “Boys will be boys!”
Abby, I’m afraid for my 6-year-old daughter. A few weeks ago, Dale decided he wanted to play “good guys/bad guys” with her.
When he grabbed my daughter in a choke hold and held a toy gun to her head, she became hysterical. I have since had nightmares that Dale will find a real gun, think it’s one of his play guns and shoot my daughter.
I think Dale’s obsession is unhealthy, and I don’t think it’s healthy for my daughter to be around him. How do I handle this with my boyfriend? I love him and would like to spend the rest of my life with him, but I cannot marry him at the expense of my daughter. — Paranoid and Perplexed
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