I’m a beautiful woman, and it’s the first time I’ve dated below my league

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been seeing a man for about a year. For the most part, we get along fine.

We spend a lot of time together, and he professes his love for me. His intentions are to be together forever, although there has not been a proposal. I think I could continue this relationship indefinitely.

There’s just one thing: I’m not physically attracted to him. He is presentable and well-groomed, but it can’t compensate for the fact that he is homely.

I am, to put it plainly, a beautiful woman. I have always dated “in my league.”

I am trying hard not to be shallow, but this bothers me greatly. Sometimes I’m just disgusted.

I know we’ll both age, but until then, he’ll still be ugly.

I do have feelings for him, so should I try harder to overlook his defects?

— TORN ABOUT HIM IN NEVADA