I’m happily married, but I can’t stop obsessing over an old flame
Dear Abby: I have been married for 33 years. My husband is great and treats me well. We’ve had no problems. I recently got in contact with my first boyfriend from 40 years ago. We have been texting on a daily basis. We also talk on the phone and so on and so forth. All the feelings I had for him have resurfaced, which is not a good thing, since I’m married.
I have shed many tears over him (he is also married) and can’t stop thinking about him. Do I stay with the husband I have been with for 33 years or take a chance with the old boyfriend? He says he still loves me and has never forgotten about me. Would he divorce his wife to be with me? Probably. I’m torn between two lovers and feeling like a fool. Advice?
— Facing a Choice in the East
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