My Dog and My Toddler Nephew Had an Unfortunate Accident. Now My Sister’s Out for Blood.

BY SLATE STAFF

I’ve had my dog Max for three years. He is a big, sweet, goofy guy who has helped me get through some tough personal issues. He is truly my heart dog.

During a recent visit by my sister’s family, Max nipped my almost 2-year-old nephew. Max was lying on the floor with a bone when my nephew walked quickly on that side of the room, which provoked Max to freak out. Fortunately, we were able to get him off after a couple minutes. My nephew ended up needing some stitches on his cheek, forehead, and scalp, but long term he should be fine except for scarring. When I was texting my sister for updates while they were in the hospital, she was obviously upset and worried but didn’t seem mad at me.

The doctors must’ve reported it, because I got a call from animal control a few days later. Luckily, they said that since it was Max’s first serious incident, I had the choice between getting him put down or getting him six weeks of intensive training. I chose the training.

When my sister found out, she lost it. She said she just assumed I’d put Max down and couldn’t believe that I wouldn’t. She accused me of not thinking what happened to her son was a big deal and of not caring if it happened again to someone else. Obviously, I’m sad about what happened and totally understand if my sister doesn’t want her family around Max anymore, but euthanasia is a big overreaction. She said she’ll have to rethink our relationship because I’m not who she thought I was if I won’t do “the right thing.”

I love my sister but I’m not killing my dog to appease her. I’m going to give her time to calm down and get in a more reasonable headspace before I talk to her again. When I do, what is the best way to approach this with her? How do I convince her not to blow up our family over this one accident?

—Love My Pup

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