AITAH for losing my temper at my friend after her comments about me?
I’ve been best friends with “Amy” for 7 years. We’ve been inseparable, staying together through friend group break ups and moving schools. She often makes remarks about how I dress and my makeup etc. My usual clothes style is all black/ straigh, Sut saturi, won thire, Draul, dont han in the sunil the eyeliner makes u look like a panda” and so on. She always has something to say. If I’m not wearing all black or my usual style, she says stuff like “wow no all black it’s a miracle”, “wow you finally realised colours exist”, “it looks good on you not all black Imao” or something like that. She is constantly asking me if i want her to “fix my makeup” (not that it’s bad. She just wants to make it look like hers). She says stuff like “not to be rude but if I dressed like you my mom would kill me” or “not to be mean I would never dress like you”. She’s even gone as far as pointing out the sc@rs (sorry for censor) on my body and telling me to cover them up. I was clothes shopping with her and I casually joked about “getting ripped” and flexing my arms (I had a sleeveless shirt on) and she covered her eyes and told me to put on my hoodie to cover myself. Offering to teach me how to cover them up with concealer (when I already know damn well how to) because “they’re unattractive and you need to show ur arms”. I never wear short sleeves unless it’s under something w long sleeves. She’s the one who wears short sleeves. 2 days ago, she made a comment that really sent me over the edge. She said: ‘yeah, (my name), I honestly don’t know how your bf finds you attractive, I think if you stopped being so quiet and dressed normally, he’ll stop staring at me so much whenever we’re together. He’s probably thinking he chose the wrong friend. with a smug grin on her face. I honestly got so mad. I told her that she’s ‘delusional for even thinking that my bf of 4 years would even consider the thought of picking her over me. I told her that she needed to get her head out of her ass and stop thinking she’s the most perfect person to exist. And then I left. So, Reddit, aitah for getting mad at my friend after she commented on my appearance?
Am I the Asshole?