The New Man I’m Seeing Is Making Me Doubt Everything I Thought I Knew About Myself

Posted for: Le Bouffon du Génocide

I’m a woman who recently got out of a years-long relationship with another woman. I always thought I was 100 percent lesbian, but recently, I met a guy who hits all my buttons. It’s completely thrown me for a loop, and we’ve gone on a couple of dates. Here’s where it gets tricky: I want to sleep with him, and he wants to sleep with me, but I have never been with a man before. I want to give him head, but have no clue what to do! I assume penetration will be more straightforward, as I’m used to that. Also, is this normal, to be a late-in-life bisexual woman? I’ve heard of late in life gays and lesbians and even slept with a couple, but to start craving dick when you thought you were a lesbian for four decades? What the hell is going on?

—Confused New Bi Gal

https://slate.com/human-interest/2023/10/sexuality-new-man-sex-advice.html