AITA for putting a lock on my dresser drawer to keep my girlfriend from taking my clothes?
Recently my girlfriend has taken to wearing my boxers and underwear. Not shirts or shorts, stuff like that. Just my underwear. She says they’re comfy and likes how they feel. I bought her some of the kinds I always get but she won’t wear those ones, she wants mine for whatever reason.
It was cute when it first started but she changes clothes twice a day so that’s 3 pair of underoos coming out of my drawer daily. I’ve asked her to stop, I’ve told her to stop. She won’t stop and thinks I’m getting upset over nothing because, as she states, none of her previous relationships had a problem with her taking their clothes.
I put a lock on my underwear drawer. It’s just a safety lock but I won’t tell her how to open it and she got frustrated when she couldn’t get it open. Apparently, she told her best friend about it because when I got home last night, her friend commented that only an ass would do something like that. I get what they’re saying about it being clothes but I think it’s a pretty simple ask to not do it daily because that adds up quickly.
The 3 pairs a day seem to be causing some confusion- She wears 2 pairs (wear to work and another pair she puts on after she gets home from work and showers) and then I take a pair to wear for the day.
There are 3 reasons I don’t like sharing my underwear: 1. I just don’t like sharing underwear, it’s gross to me and a hard ‘no’. She’s been told this every time I bring the topic up. 2. Her wearing them stretches them out and puts extra wear and tear in addition to what constant washing does. 3. Not to be gross or judgy but vaginas have all kinds of discharge and I don’t want stained undies.
We have to use a laundromat, meaning laundry gets done 1, sometimes 2, days a week. We share the laundry duty. Either we both go or one of us does it one week, and the next week the other person does it.
Am I an Asshole?
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