My husband wants my money
DEAR ABBY: I’ve been married for 19 years to my second husband, “Jack.” Our children are grown. When we met, I was a business owner, and he was retired. He has had numerous medical issues and procedures, and I have always insured him on my health plans and been his advocate. We have always had separate bank accounts and a household account we equally contribute to. Jack has numerous CDs and funds that he manages. We do not commingle those funds. I have never asked for money from him and have always contributed to any of the household needs.
I still work full time and recently began receiving my Social Security, which I’m banking for my retirement as I don’t anticipate receiving any of Jack’s money. Maybe I will, but I need to be proactive on my own behalf.
Jack is now seeing my increased income and wants me to contribute a larger portion of my salary to the household account. I don’t think his expectation is fair or warranted. I do most of the household and yard chores since he has become limited in his ability and strength. Please advise.
— WORKING GAL IN WASHINGTON
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