DEAR ABBY: I have a neurological disorder and can no longer keep up with my friends (who used to be my friends). I don’t explain the problems I have and why I can’t do the things I used to do unless they ask. I still drive, but I have trouble walking. I have a wonderful husband who helps me all the time. I’m lucky I can do what I do, but I am very limited.
I don’t know how to explain it to people who look at me like I’m making it up. Abby, I have polyneuropathy and have had seven back surgeries. I have arthritis in all my joints. I live in constant pain, but it doesn’t “look” like I do. How do I explain my disability? I’m tired of being at home and not getting phone calls anymore. How do I tell them there are still things I can do? — DOWN BUT NOT OUT IN RHODE ISLAND
