I said I was sorry about my text, but they still won’t let me see my grandchild
DEAR ABBY:
My son married my daughter’s best friend, “Kayla.” I’ve loved this young woman since she was a little girl, so when she officially became part of our family, I was overjoyed. Kayla and my son now have a baby, but my husband and I are rarely allowed to see our grandchild. The only people who spend regular time with the baby are Kayla’s mother and her side of the family. Kayla’s parents are divorced, and even her father — who also has limited access — sees the baby more often than we do.
Out of hurt and frustration, I sent my son a text message that wasn’t kind. I regret it deeply. I have apologized and acknowledged that I shouldn’t have written what I did, but they still keep us at arm’s length. I’m heartbroken and don’t know how to fix this.
They recently announced that I’m going to be a grandmother again. I wish I could feel pure joy, but my experience with their first child has left me anxious and discouraged. I fear the same distance will continue with this new baby.
I love my grandchildren and their parents very much. I just don’t want to keep being seen as the bad guy. What should I do?
— Kept Away in Tennessee
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