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DEAR ABBY: I have a longtime friend, “Erin,” who is my age (early 60s). She retired several months ago and has told me a couple of times since then that she has stopped wearing bras.
I thought she meant around the house, but she means ALL the time. Erin is generously endowed and has “headlights.” In warmer weather, she’s less likely to wear a cardigan, so the lack of a bra or anything else to preserve a bit of modesty other than wearing her shirts in a larger size is starting to bother me.
I don’t normally care what other women wear. But I cringe having Erin around my husband and other friends, and I no longer want to go out and about with her.
Am I a prude? If this were something occasional, I would ignore it. But this seems to be forever. If I say something, what should I say? — CAN’T UNSEE THIS IN CALIFORNIA