My new guy and I are having some of the hottest, kinkiest sex I’ve ever had. A lot of the kinky stuff is relatively new to me, but not that out there (handcuffs, spanking, other mild BDSM, anal play), and I’m 100 percent down. But recently, after we tipsily stumbled into my apartment, I hopped to the bathroom for an urgent pee and my boyfriend followed me in. I wasn’t sure what was happening but wasn’t bothered. I was surprised when he knelt, opened my legs, and watched me go. But it felt quite intimate and fairly sexy in the moment.
And then when I was done, he leaned forward and licked me! I wasn’t peeing in his mouth by any means. I didn’t feel exactly grossed out, more just shocked. But as he continued to eat me out, I got over that quickly and enjoyed what was honestly probably the best oral of my life. When I asked him about it afterward, he said he hoped he hadn’t moved too fast and that I wasn’t upset. I assured him I was not, but wanted to know more about this side of him. He told me he wasn’t “like, a big golden showers guy” but that he liked the dirtiness of “light pee play” and mentioned that he would be interested in incorporating it into our BDSM play—like making me drink a bunch of water beforehand and then forcing me to hold it in until I couldn’t anymore. He was a bit evasive about whether he wanted me to go in his mouth, but stressed that he was not interested in peeing on me.
I am…intrigued. I would not have gone for this if he’d asked me directly instead of just doing it but obviously, the ensuing sex was hot and I want more of that and just want to make my (awesome) partner happy. I guess my two questions are: Do you think he’s being honest with me, or is he downplaying a kink and in a few years he’ll be asking me to poop in a diaper or something? (Because ew, no.) And two, less fraught but of more immediate concern, when were having sex after getting out of the bathroom, we were making out as usual. I didn’t think about it right away, but I’m sure I technically got some pee in my mouth. Was this unhealthy?
—Should I Stay or Should I…
https://slate.com/human-interest/2023/12/golden-showers-sex-advice-relationship.html
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