I am from the south of the USA. I married my wife who is from a culture that isn’t very kind to women or other groups. I will not be saying it due to their is a lot of hate on the internet and I don’t need to hear it. The basics is they are not friendly towards multiple groups.
Now my wife has stepped away from that culture when she married me but ever since we had our daughters she is bringing her family around. I have made sure all the girls hear diverse viewpoint and that the family isn’t pressuring them.
I have kicked multiple of them out for what they have said to my girls. They behave now.
Now my parents want to visit for the holidays and I brought up them staying here for a few days. She told me no since she doesn’t like their views and exposing them the kids. I told her explain and she just repeated that.
I told her she is a fucking hypocrite and is fine with her family making their views all over and commenting on the girls body’s but my family is the issue. She called me a jerk and locked some out of the bedroom.
I also want to make it clear, my family is pretty normal. Yes they have views I don’t agree with but they aren’t crazy. I would say her family is much worse.
Am I an Asshole?