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DEAR ABBY: My husband has, for years, felt the need to talk filthy and ask sexual questions of other women.
It bothers me something terrible. He’s upset that I ruin his “fun,” and insists he isn’t hurting anyone and that he likes being the life of the party. We have fought over this for years, and I’m exhausted from it.
I told him I don’t see the need for him to do this, and he continues to tell me I need to quit being so unreasonable.
I don’t know what to do, and I’m ready to just give up. It doesn’t make me love or respect him. I actually loathe him when he does it. Please help.
— REPELLED IN IOWA
Dear Abby: My husband says I ruin his fun at parties, but I’m mortified by what he does