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I am British but ethnically Korean and I was brought up always to take your shoes off indoors (its a big part of korean culture not to wear shoes indoors). I know not everyone does that in their own homes, but in my home I dont wear shoes and I don’t want others wearing shoes either, so I politely ask guests to take off their shoes.
Recently I had a hosted a dinner party for about 8 friends. Nobody had a problem except one who said her shoes were part of her outfit and she didn’t want to take them off. I told her I’m sorry but I insist and she got angry. She refused and ended up storming off.
Am I the asshole?