Last week my friend (28m) and I (26m) have had our kids together for a play date. He has 4 kids ranging from 5 years old to 11 years old. We were at my house, my child (8f) has pokemon cards. Some cards were in a book, these cards were the special ones. After our friends leave this book magically disappears. This is the third time something of my child’s has came up missing after our friends have came over. I have tore my child’s room apart looking for this book of cards. I blamed my wife for not putting the book away with the other special toys she put away before our gathering. It was supposed to be her responsibility to keep our child’s belongings safe. This book is no where to be found.
This is where I may be the ahole, I don’t want these kids at my house; I have played hell calming my daughter down after her stuff came up missing. I asked to be payed back for at least a portion of what my child lost. Now my friendship is just about over because I accused his kids of theft.
AITA?