My friend recently moved into her own apartment. She asked me to spend the night and as we were hanging out, she said “don’t freak out if you see a roach.” She knows I’m terrified of them so she just wanted to warn me I guess. (After I had committed to spending the night).
Sure enough, an hour later we are mid-conversation when a roach starts crawling on me! It was so disgusting.
Then I see another one crawling on the wall. I’m very uncomfortable at this point. She acted nonchalant and said it’s just part of apartment living, and that they’re just bugs.
I didn’t sleep well. I was terrified of them crawling on me in my sleep.
The fact that she doesn’t see them as a problem is also concerning to me. She’s just accepted them and isn’t doing anything to combat them, which tells me the problem will just get worse. I don’t want to bring any home with me and honestly it was just an uncomfortable visit.
Am I over reacting? I keep having bad dreams of them crawling all over me at night.
WIBTA if I never go over there again? I value her friendship it’s just the pests that make me so uncomfortable! Or am I overreacting?