We were blindsided. When we reached out to national headquarters even before there was a vote on this person’s application, we were told that they would get back to us, but they never did. When we brought up privacy and safety concerns, we were either ignored or told to be quiet and change our definition of a woman.

So much for the shared values of respect and truth.

Later, we learned that Kappa Kappa Gamma’s leadership approved this man for membership from the outset. After talking to our chapter and national leadership, we felt that a lawsuit was the only option to save and keep female-only spaces safe for biological women.

We have a simple claim: we were promised an all-female experience, and we have the legal right to that. Kappa Kappa Gamma’s bylaws restrict membership to women.

If Kappa’s national leadership wants to admit men, they should change the organization formally through the proper processes, and should communicate to all chapters and to prospective members during recruitment. We hope that doesn’t happen. Women’s only spaces are so integral and valuable to our society and rather than tear them down, we hope to help protect them.

We believe everyone should have a safe place to live. We do not believe in bending rules, in valuing one member’s feelings over the security and privacy concerns of others. We do not believe in forcing opinions on others. We do not believe in discrimination against transgender individuals.

Women should not be belittled and discriminated against for wanting the single-sex experience they were promised and that is permitted under Title IX. Women deserve rights under the law and with these rights, the community, safety, privacy and opportunities that come with women-only spaces

We are young women, no different than you, your daughters, your friends, your family members. We do not fear those who tried to discipline and silence us. Instead, we have chosen to fight to prevent other women from finding themselves in a similar situation.

We are standing up for women’s rights and spaces. Stand with us and be heard.