A pretty mom from Memphis, Tennessee has been forced to defend herself why she chose to have 11 children with eight different dads, after explaining she constantly gets asked the question.
Phi who goes by @phieudoraa on TikTok explained she was sick of having to explain why she has eight “baby daddies”.
Phi regularly shares videos of her big family, but reflecting on having 11 children, the mom explained she’s fed up with constantly having to explain herself to other people.
One of the questions she always gets is why she has eight different fathers for her kids. According to Phi – it’s all about maths.
“One thing I’m sick of having to explain is why I have eight baby daddies,” Phi began.
“So I’ll explain this one time for y’all, so there won’t be any more questions. Let me explain it. If you have one and you take away one, you have zero. But if you have eight and you take away three, you still have five.”
She added in the caption: “Like duhhhh y’all gotta do the math…”
A few people were confused in the comments, but Phi clarified: ”If I only had 1 baby daddy and he leave or die my kids would be fatherless, butttt if I have 8 and 3 were to leave or die my kids still have 5 dads.”
Phi also shared a court document that showed how she was receiving only ten dollars per month in child support payments because the fathers of her children are all deadbeats without good jobs or reliable sources of income.
Others had lots of questions, with many keen to know if she gets on with all of the dads still.
Responding to confused viewers, Phi joked: ”I wanna have like another 19, just so I could make it even, 30.”
The mom also explained joked about where she met previous matches, saying she previously used Craigslist.
”But that’s kinda played out now so I usually just like post on Marketplace… or if I see like an empty billboard, I’ll post an add up there. Nothing too extreme, you know,” she said.
Other followers were way more supportive of Phi, with many sharing their own experiences.
One person wrote: ”My mama got 9. we just say she was in love 9 times.”
While another said: “The comment section is disappointing, get it girl. Some men have 12 baby mommas, who cares. They’re beautiful kids.”
And a third added: “I got 8 children. I feel u girl…ur children are beautiful and look well kept and happy… salute queen.”
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