Are Texans Too Nice?

Are Texans Too Nice?

Dear Doc,
I’m fairly new in town, and I’ve got a question for you about Texan dudes, because I’ll be honest, I don’t know much about ’em. I’m certainly not a player hater. I like to do my own share of playing the field, and admittedly, I am largely a commitment-phobe and am not looking for anything remotely serious. However, in my limited experiences with Texan men so far, they don’t seem to be very upfront or straightforward about things. For example, they’ll agree to meet up, then just pull a slow fade, instead of just politely saying no. (Dude, homegirl can handle the rejection, I just don’t get why Texas guys have to be so “nice” about it. In the end it’s way douchier.) Or they’ll talk about their feelings whilst hooking up and get all sweet on you, and the next day, or several days later, you finally get the picture that it was just a hookup and they actually don’t give a shit about you, friend or otherwise. Instead of calling it what it is, they feel the need to fabricate feelings and say shit they don’t mean. I guess guys can be like that anywhere, but I’ve never found guys so insincere in all the land. Texan guys are too “nice”. Any advice for an old gal who’s just trying to tell it like it is in the saddle?
Argosy

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