I’m a happily married man in my 60s and find myself in the strange position of trying to ward off attention from one of my wife’s friends. She’s a single lady and very vivacious and attractive, and when she’s had a glass of wine, she’s flirtatious with me.
We had some drinks at a friend’s house a few nights ago, and while my wife was talking to some other guests, this woman beckoned me into the kitchen, pulled me up against the fridge and kissed me.
I was shocked to say the least, blurted something out about not being interested, and then made a hasty retreat back to the party.
I thought that would be the end of it, but then I saw her in town and she was batting her eyes at me and suggested a “re-run” of the other night. She wasn’t embarrassed in the slightest.
What am I to make of this and should I say something to my wife?