Partner’s Sexual Guilt

Dear Hoopers,
Hi there! I have been looking for a solid relationship for nearly a decade, and this year I finally found the man I want to marry. And amazingly enough he wants to marry me too. In fact, he’s bought the ring and I am almost certain his intention was to propose to me in a few weeks. He’s kind, considerate and we work very well together. However last week I found out he has slept with prostitutes in the past. Some traumatic stuff happened to him in his younger years and I think it sort of tipped him over the edge and I don’t really think he thought much about others.

He slept with prostitutes 3 times during his 20s. However, he also slept with a prostitute only 18 months ago, in the Philippines, which I have massive issues with as the women there aren’t exactly given a lot of choice. He’s not proud about it, he’s deeply regretful and doesn’t try to excuse any of it. To add insult to injury, I have been battling with an anxiety issue to do with the objectification of women for the past 10 years. Every time I think about it I feel sick and don’t know how to move past it. But I love him and want to try but I just don’t know how to stop my head from spinning. Thanks for your help.
-Partner’s Sexual Guilt

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