The dilemma I am in my mid-50s and have never had the chance to experience anal sex. My wife is a dear, loving woman and our sex life is otherwise fantastic. In the days when we both used to drink more she was willing to give it a try, but we were both novices and she couldn’t relax enough in the places that mattered to get things going. My wife no longer drinks and whenever I hint that we might further explore the possibilities I get a loving kiss and a redirection. Would I be terribly in the naughty corner if I strayed on to a website that casually caters for such desires for those that seek them? I’m sure it would be a one-off. Probably. I guess it’s one of those sexual bucket list things.