I had sex with my friend’s ex

Dear Ashley,

I need advice. I had sex with my friend’s ex. It wasn’t intentional and just sort of happened. My friend and her man had been having issues for a while. They were at this on again off again stage when I ran into him one night at an event, he started flirting with me. I reciprocated and felt a very strong connection.

Shortly after this, they officially broke things off, but my friend has had a lot of regret for ending things between them. Since their breakup, I’ve stayed in touch with the ex. We text and talk occasionally. Two weeks ago, he asked me over to his place for dinner. And then it happened.  I was trying to resist, but I lost all rational thinking.  Now, I don’t know what to do. Should I tell my friend?  I don’t want to lose our friendship over this. I don’t want to be some rebound hookup either? How can I fix this?

I had her man


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