My husband thinks oral sex – for me – is unnecessary. How do I convince him otherwise?

My husband thinks oral sex – for me – is unnecessary. How do I convince him otherwise?

My husband and I have been married for two years. We have a relatively healthy sex life but he does not reciprocate with oral sex. When confronted, he said he has no issue surrounding it, he just feels it is not necessary. I feel rejected and that the focus is primarily on him reaching an orgasm, with no focus on my enjoyment. How can I have a conversation with him without him getting defensive? I have never had an orgasm through penetrative sex and, in previous relationships, I have loved receiving oral sex.

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/jun/23/my-husband-thinks-oral-sex-for-me-is-unnecessary-how-do-i-convince-him-otherwise

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